Hi Toggles, I believe you have almost answered your own question there by saying “it’s so hard to keep loving someone with all your trust and integrity when you’re no longer sure that person values that that is what you’ve been giving them.”

Relationships should not be hard, yes everyone has struggles but your partner should be the one to support you when you have struggles elsewhere. I sometimes feel that deep down you know what is right to do. Yes the heart tells you to stay and forgive as it is the easier option, but you need to do what is best for your heart in the long run. We sometimes do not want to admit to ourselves what is the right thing to do as we feel it is too painful to face. If he will not commit to do everything and anything in his power to try solve this issue, then walking away is the only other option. Walking away is hard…but I guarantee you will thank yourself for making the move once you have healed and can see things more clearly. I wish you all the best xx