Dear Pat:
I hope your spiritual/ energy healer helps you. I also hope you do not get stuck in being the helpful, stong guy for others to benefit from, the GIVER. I hope you learn how to take as well as to give, how to be volnerable with another, that is “weak” so that another has the chance to help you and get the great feeling of being helpful (to you). See, what you like, helping others, that somebody you are trying to help may benefit most by being helpful to you…
anita