Hi Inky,

Thank you for your input, like i said i am welcoming to all opinions. I know we are not at that stage to marry yet; i have my career to start and he has his. Im okay with that, i would never play tug of war with him on anything he is passionate about. What im asking is if he is in it for real this time after breaking up and making up for 3 years, after a year off from each other. I dont want to be a passing stage in life with anyone.

Reena