Anita,

Good morning, How are you? How do you manage to do that all that. Reading mindset just so accurately.
Well I am doing good, feeling better less of Anger. Yes you are right, the mindset does not remain the same- its all hormones how they respond ;). It has fluctuations, sometimes to high and sometimes too low. So far its going good, dealing with it in a nicely manner. My husband is going out this weekend to have a break with his male friends for a sleep over, and he was asking my permission. Should I go or not? And i was forcing him to go and have sometime with your friends. Anyways i am feeling good about it, not sad at all. Thats fine with me. I feel sometimes I am too judgmental. But anyways everything is going smoothly so far.
I could not agree more the way you have explained every situation, yes mind set changes, the situation changes. Like today for an example i tell you, my husband and I, we both daily send texts on reaching to our respective workplace, but today he did not send me a message and I am alright, I mean I might bring this in the evening or probably when I get to speak to him. Earlier I used to get really upset, that he does not forget to check other social networking sites before starting his work, but how can we forgets to prioritize me before that. But Today I was completely different, I did not spend a minute thinking about it. Earlier I used to think a lot a lot over such tiny issues, thinking how can he forget, I do not forget such things. I used to start with such a negative mood, thinking about why does he always forgets me. and in return I never used to send him a text but today i did differently I sent him a text when I left n reached. You must be thinking” How stupid of me” Thinking over such a petty things n issues. But they sometimes means a lot. Anyways here All i am trying to explain – the shift in thinking pattern. I am alright, i do not have that anger feeling or something. Yes i do have this in my mind that he has not send the text and he was checking other social sites, but that’s fine. I can’t be fake, had i not wanted to send him a text I would not have. But I did with a smiley. But that’s true these small things do matter to me, probably I do not have enough friends here and I am too much into my husband, or I expect too much from him… Do not know what it is…

I do not know sometimes I wonder ppl are dying on this planet without meal, they are jobless. there is so much pain in this planet and we are running after such an idiotic things. Poor ME.

Thank you Anita, You mean alot to me. thanks for being there with me.. I have someone who listens to me everyday and above all who has answers to my things…