Dear Blessing,

Thank you for your concern, you are a jewel. Yes I did lot of work on myself. I went to spend a day with my friend. I stayed at her place, not with the one with babies. I went to old friend of mine. Spoke to her for hours, saw movies back to back. And yes I read all your messages and I will apply to them from time to time. Yesterday I have put up a stick note on my cupboard, with few approaches : CALM, step back from the heated moment and think over it, not to be judgmental, E.A.R, WIN-WIN Relationship.
I cannot have MAN to MAN fight with my husband. I need to be graceful and kind and need to communicate to him in my own way. I am glad he had a wonderful time with his friends. And all went well, we need to have frequent breaks like that, to give space to each other. All is well, with healthy mind set, its may be I due for my monthly cycles and these hormones, make you behave in a weird way. I do not want to hold anyone responsible for why am i reacting like this. I know I need to change my thinking pattern.
Thanks for being a part of my life. Thank you.
I have made a thumb rule, at the heated moment, I will remain quite and moreover I will always step back from the moment and will calm myself first. That’s how life moves on. And as far as my job is concerned, I cannot quit the job, the best is to accept the situation the way it is… Then it becomes lot easier to deal with.

Thanks Anita once again and I love you for being there with me.

How was your weekend?