Dear Antonio:

If I posted the following thread:

“Hello. My name is Anita. Im in desperation for advice…After years of job searching I finally found an opportunity for me to grow professionally and stabilize my life but I have to move to take this opportunity.

My boyfriend firmly believes I am selfish if I choose to pursue my dream.

He says I dont love him and I am a liar.

The fact is I do love him but what about my personal goals and desires?

What should I do?”

What would your answer to me be?
anita