Thank you so much and i know exactly thats what i should be doing. However I worry about him so much. I feel he needs me and that i shouldnt abandon him. I feel he needs somebody and I am the only person who he is comfortable being pampered by and m worried that he must be suffering all alone and for me to leave him at this time of his need i feel guilty to move on and let go. How do u convince yourself that you should think of your happiness first before his.? How do u get the courage to stop worrying about him and move on?