I feel what I feel and the heart wants what the heart wants but sometimes cannot have it Yoda I am fairly spiritual myself, and the best advice I can give is to say find something you don’t like about her even though as you say she is good looking and every once in a while bring it into the conversation you keep having with yourself, even if it’s you don’t like her relative, but then again who does..By the way I thought Yoda would know the answer to these things