Dear yoda428:

I hope you do not go into your daughter’s Facebook account again, whatever it takes, so to respect her privacy.

Of course what is seen on Facebook is not at all what is so. Photos often do not represent reality, they are just photos.

To the main thing: you have a need in your from your earliest days on this earth, to be seen, to be valued, to be accepted, to be loved- by your parents. This need obviously was not satisfied then. You were needy adn clingy with your ex wife because of this unmet need perculating in your neurons until you address it adequately. Obviously, in your spiritual journey, you haven’t gotten to that place yet of listening to that need, seeing where it started, addressing the HURT of that little boy that you were, that little boy in you still.

That “aching feeling” you refer to in your original post, I believ, is that unmet need, from your childhood.

““Named must your fear be before banish it you can.” said Yoda. Name your NEED, feel the pain of your hurt when it was not met, that need, when you were not loved. See WHO the person that didn’t love you was (unloving), then you will see you were not un-lovable.

Loveable you are.

anita