Dear Judy,

Hang in there. It sounds really hard. I had a tough time too when i went to a top University. I couldnt really connect, found myself lost about the future and my inferiority complex just got worse. My boyfriend seemed to be happier in his college back home though he had more than enough family trouble. I would say two things here –

1) If you really cant take it anymore, then go to an environment that nourishes you rather than depletes your soul. In the long run, its your happiness that counts and your happiness, well-being in turn will get you closer to your peak performance.

2) Other side of the coin: Have you really pushed your boundaries yet and explored the opportunities college has to offer?

Think about it.

– Moon