Hi cb2015,

The first step is to be honest with yourself, that’s what you did. Piggybacking on Matic’s questions, I would like to ask how you know you want more than love if you are not in love in the first place? I’m no expert in this field, but just like Matic, I want to pose the questions that will get you to think about your situation and perhaps help you find answers.

It’s important to communicate with your partner about how you are feeling because unexpressed emotions will never die and will manifest themselves in uglier ways in the future. Sometimes you have to have one of “those” conversations to clear your conscience, and also to be fair to him.

James