Dear PryingMimi:

Sounds to me that you, the guy (and your mother for giving you… what advice?) are operating in the dark, not sure what you are doing and why. He hounds you for a second date after a bad date, and you texting him after a bad date and willing to see him again… after you already formed a disrespectful attitude toward him, thinking very little of him.

If I was you on the first date I would ask him what he is looking for in a date or in a relationship so you get information. Not small talk but straight questions. That way you get the information you need. And I would figure out what I am looking for in a guy.

What do you think?
anita