Dear Annie:

A go getter in love, you wrote that you are a go getter and we are talking about dating, so I wonder what a go getter does, go after love as if it was out there? Go get a guy to do… what? I wonder. When I wrote “slowly” I now mean, let things in the inside of you surprise you. Let new things happen, come about, manifest, rise from within you.

Of course, find out, slowly, who he is. Is he open to and curious about who you are? Does he want to know you slowly or is he a…fast and furious go getter himself?

Slowly get to know him and you every step of the way, however long the way may be.

anita