As to your question “Do you think everything happens for a reason?” No, I do not. It is a good idea to use opportunities in life to learn more about ourselves and other people and about life, but there is no master manipulator that determines how things will be with a reason behind it. Lots and lots of random things happen, no reason behind, but good use can be made from those things in learning.

As to “Should I keep the hope?” No.

I do have a way that can help you and it has to do with the LEARNING thing, learning from opportunities to learn. There is something or some things very important that you can learn from the whole ongoing story with Andrew.

I will ask a question or two in the direction of encouraging you, the best I can, to start the journey of learning what you can from this. If you answer, we will keep going:

this PASSION, this Spark and Chemistry and feeling of being soulmates, forever-love thing- the things missing from your current relationship- what about Andrew triggered those feelings and convictions in you? Try to answer with whatever comes to mind, just type without evaluating and re-thinking what you type.

anita