Dear voicewriter:

You wrote that you usually wait until men break up with you. I wonder if that is why you were “a shrew” – your word- with this last man, giving him a hard time, nit picking, waiting for him to break up with you. That may be a passive aggressive way to make things happen. I don’t know. I am guessing because you have no insight of any significance into this relationship, in my understanding. This is very interesting to me.

Probably a good idea to leave it in the past and not go back no matter what, not with him. Without insight, it will end badly… again.

Wishing you well. I wish I could have been helpful. If you do get some new insight, please do post again and I will respond!

Have a Happy Bostonian Thanksgiving!
anita