Hello bailsafe,
Have you watched the movie Sliding Doors? It’s about a woman’s life (Gwyneth Paltrow) who misses the train in a split-second and the story of what happens; but then there’s also a parallel story of when she doesn’t miss the train and then what happens.

Wouldn’t it be cool to see our lives in that way – what would happen if I make this decision now versus a different one? But the way life operates is that it gives you choices – these choices are yours to make! If you’re willing to go along on the adventure to see where it will lead you, go with the one that causes the most excitement in your heart! If you feel like you’d regret your choices later in life then go with the safer options.

“How we spend our days, of course, is how we spend our lives.” – one of my favorite quotes from Annie Dillard. I hope this helps!