let me tell you a story.
i grew up in a fu*ked up family. my father was exactly the opposite of the guy who got dumped in the first post. he cheated, she was nobody in his eyes, he always told her she’s no good and she didn’t deserve him, he was always looking for a reason to argue with her and he always found one.
my mother lost her sister and her parents (my grandpa had Alzheimer before he died) in a short period of time and my father instead of being supportive was f*cking some other women. I was 14 when I realized by my own that he was regularly cheating my mom.
my mother never wanted to leave him. she died from a brain stroke when I was 18.
I hate my father and I hate myself. I never took her side. I was a cower and never stand for her.

I’m now in the mid ’30. I have a perfect resume, a well paid job which I love, I look good and I’m fit, I can get easy women to agree to take them to a date. But… I never hat a relation longer than 1 year. Why? Because I treat every woman exactly the opposite of how my father treated my mother. All women in my life sooner or later dump me. Same reason as the main post.

I know that I will get the same results if I continue like this. But I cannot change the way I am…….