Hi Anita,
I won’t be attending therapy with him as I have been there and done that but am open to it if the therapist asks me to attend. I do not have an issue no more as I was holding onto a lot of anger and resentment to him and was not willing to forgive which is what kept me stuck in my life in pain. And then I realised I need to forgive and let go for me, not for him.
I was not passive in the past session and definitely if their are future ones as I will always challenge her advice or observations if I did not agree with them.
I will be taking back of control on my life and I am a big believer of actions speak louder than words and if the healing path gets to difficult for him and he choses this is no longer his path, then I will continue on my own life path without him, even though it will be painful, but I will have to accept what is and let go and find the new better life that is intended for me.
Thank you for you support Anita and I hope you had a lovely birthday xxx