Anita, thank you very much for replying. As you can see it’s been hard times for me and I was desperate to hear someone’s opinion.
You are correct. He was always consistent. We got engaged last January. Ever since we met he mentioned how much he wanted a family. We always talked about our future life together, having kids, where to live, dogs, etc.
He was so consistent that it took me by surprise when during one of my scared moments last October he said to me that after his divorce he had made a promise to himself that he would never get married again, but after he met me he couldn’t walk away and those feelings changed because he really wanted a life together with me.
After the visa, plane ticket and engagement dinner preparation he became distant and decided he fell out of love.
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