Dear Shelly:

In my situation, my husband does not have minor children. In your case, if you marry him, the minor children will be a part of your life. And they are minor, so if you were to marry him, this is a bigger problem than just your feelings as the children’s well being is very important. They should feel wanted in the home of their father.

I didn’t think about this before. It just occurred to me. Everything I shared with you still applies, I believe, except there is an extra consideration here. What are you going to do if you marry him…?

I will be back at the computer tomorrow morning and write more about your last post above. Bed time for me now. Oh, and I hope to read what are your thinking about the possibility of living with him, how will that work with his children?

anita