Update:
He ended up responding to my message in a nut shell telling me that he doesn’t want to upset me but that he doesn’t want a relationship because he needs to focus on his life. And that he loves me and blah blah blah

My response: Yea, I don’t want to do this with you anymore , so bye.

His response: Alright, sorry for wasting your time then. I still love you , call me if you need anything I am here and will always be.

My response: Read what I am saying to you very carefully: Keep your supposed “love” for me to yourself” I have no interest in your distorted idea of how someone loves another person. Don’t count on me calling you for anything that I might need. You wont be hearing from me or seeing me ever again. Oh ,and hope you enjoyed the sex asshole , Now fuck off. Oh , and I almost forgot ! Don’t even bother responding because I will be blocking and deleting your number from my phone.

I know my response may have seemed cruel but I am so done with feeling used ! I all of sudden developed this instant coldness in my heart for him like something I have never felt before. I am no longer scared to see how he might view me I just wanted my voice heard for once. I doubt he really got the severity of what I was saying and the fucked up part is that I can almost bet that he will try to reach out or contact me again at some point in the near future ! This isn’t love and if it is then I don’t want anything to do with it. I am pretty sure he is shocked about the way I responded since I have never been that forward before . I saw a psychic over a year ago and she told me that the moment I dismiss him and stop falling for his ways that he would begin to suffer for what he has done to me. She told me to guarantee his return sometime in august .She told me that he will always be back and that overtime he would cry to me and try really hard to win back my affections. I think that this may be the start to that.