Dear Shelly:

Tomorrow is almost here and you will be (or already did) meet him. I hope you can use the opportunity to just tell him simply, honestly how things are for you. With no expectations of resurrecting the relationship (if you trust his 100% assertion)- you have nothing to lose. Be vulnerable, tell him how badly you want to be taken care of, to be number one! Have an honest conversation, straightforward… no reason not to, not a single reason, I say.

Please post again after the meeting.. or before.

anita