Juanita, I understand what you are saying, one of life’s curves. There are so many curves in life! But, I have had ENOUGH CURVES from relationships in my time that there is REALLY nothing more to learn, other flip a coin and decide to give it a chance? I really can’t think of anything I learned from this one then from any other one? other then, you give a try, you get emotionally attached, it didn’t workout for SOME REASON? then you go on your merry way putting your heart back together and scratching your head trying to figure out what went wrong? not really any different from the last relationship that came to an end? Lol!