Dear jim:

Following reading your last comment above: Maybe there is something to learn after all, even from this last one: if you can, to pace yourself and take it slower, if you can, before you get attached, get to know the person. Not to dive in head first (or some part first.. a joke, my goodness, I think I was funny just now, was I jim?)

Anyway, you are quite an emotional, spontaneous, honest person, quite a delight to read your posts, really. Unfortunately most people are more (undesirably) complicated… so that is why, in this real world we live in, better take more time.

What do you think?

anita