Hi Anita,

Wow your reply is really spot on. Thank you for your enlightenment.

I have been criticized by the same friend when I had a similar experience years ago, and I guess I am still carrying the same disapproval.

To overcome this I would need to check for any evidence that the disapproval is true. The evidence for her disapproval for this case is conflicting though. She is supportive of us, but told me not to start a relationship because of the bad timing. This is also one of my concerns causing an inner conflict.

I’m not sure of how I should deal with this.