Dear Zainab:

It seems to me that you are like a bird that did not yet spread its wings, a bird that needs to spread its wings and FLY!

A bird in a little cage, serious, quiet but not because quiet and serious is who you are.

Maybe you are loud and child like and emotional and spontaneous, you just never had the chance to express all this, to BE who you really are.

People in your home, family judged you negatively when you were those things, so you tried to accommodate their expectations and you shut yourself in that cage.

You are hoping that in a different environment, away from your family, away from their judgments… the cage of their judgements.. you will be able to spread your wings and fly!

Am I correct?
anita