Dear Roxanna:

In your original post you wrote: “he just got up and moved to California from Ohio after we met on a online game.”

It is amazing to me that a man with a very close relationship with his parents in Ohio, and great friends in Ohio and a great social support network overall in Ohio, will leave all that just like that and move to California … after fast online game relationship.

I hope the two of you do attend good couple psychotherapy when you can afford it. Until then, there are self help groups in CA, like maybe codependents anonymous that are free to attend.

Please post anytime:
anita