Dear Jessie A:

You are welcome. I see, in your last post, that he trusts in you… like a child, perhaps. And it does hurt when trust is broken. You believe it is wrong to have sex outside your marriage to him and the fact that you have done that causes you a serious conflict. Living in that kind of conflicts goes against your well being. Obviously, it should be stopped, the conflict, the dissonance. I agree with your conclusion as the way to stop this ongoing conflict, this you expressed in the second paragraph.

anita