Dear Alicia1211:

You wrote above that “he hasn’t paid or helped me with anything”- you mean regarding your pregnancy, right? But what are the payments required when you are only a month pregnant? If there are no complications, what are the expenses they are talking about???

Bad idea to involve your parents in your relationship with the guy…bad, bad idea. You can have a relationship with your parents but you only complicate things and hurt your own chances for well being if you involve them in that relationship: the guy will be more scared than he already is, morel likely to withdraw, and look at you.. you are more confused than you were before.

The guy is afraid. All this is way too much for him. Your parents now being in his life, that just tops it all and he is done or about to be done with everything…. and you are only a month pregnant.

Separate your relationship with your parents from your relationship with the guy: do not let them be involved in his life. It should be YOU and HIM, not you, your parents and him.

What says you so far?

anita