When I told her.. she said I had nothing to worry about. That he was just a good friend that she’s got along with. I was slightly calmed by this but then the game followed after and my head just spiralled out of control again.

He then left working there and left her the item which she ended up keeping as memory – we argued numerous times about it all, not just her keeping it, and she ended up throwing it away after soon after.

Truth is, she’s made me jealous in the past too – used another guy at the start of our relationship to tease and make me jealous. She’d joke how ‘he’s one any girl would want to be with’ and when I’d say you’ve chose the wrong guy, she’d tell me how ‘it’s because I’d come in all chatty first’. Although I think I’m over that and I believe her in when she says she had no feelings for him either – his name still gives me that sinking anxious feeling too.

I don’t understand why there always has to be another guy in our relationship? Love shouldn’t be about me constantly having to doubt or thinking whether she’s going to stay or not right? I used to be confident and have never felt like this before in a relationship.

Hope that clears it up! Thanks again
Adam