Dear Elle:

My advice is not to try to get him back at this point, not now. My advice is for you to explore and get an understanding of what happened and what is going on with you first. It will not be fair for him that you follow your current feelings for him when you don’t understand what is going on.

Back to when you broke up with him, you wrote that you stopped feeling loving feelings for him, maybe because of a medication. What was that medication, a psychiatric medication? What was your mental situation and life circumstances at the time preceding the break up and afterward?

What was the relief about breaking it up with him about?

anita