Dear Adam92:

Why did she argue with you about her talking about other guys: why did she argue?

You wrote that she is innocent, naive and doesn’t see people for what they are…

My goodness, Adam… what if it is you who is innocent, naive and doesn’t see her for who she is…?

You had other women before her and you think that makes you an experienced, non naive man. And you think because she did not (?) have another man before you (and she may have not!) that makes her naive. What if it was not so?

What if you are naive even though you had other women and what if she is not innocent even if she did not have other men?

And what if she feels a genuine feeling of love for you, that which you see in her eyes and still trying to hurt you at times by that kind of talking about other men and … arguing about it?

See, if you are naive, you wouldn’t know you are naive, would you?

I hope this is not distressing you, but please when calm, think about it and write me back… Your feelings, I am going by your persistent feelings throughout these posts. Let me know.

anita