@newlife123: Sorry if I suggested you had an ulterior motive to make us break up, I understand you’re trying to help. I respect your help and take in your views.

And if I take the view of a beginners mind then maybe I’ll see it as you see it. But I know her and know what she’s like. When I say innocence and naive I mean when she started working there; she’d be so closed off with everyone. She’d be scared of interaction, be scared of saying the wrong thing. She had little or no confidence at all.
When I got with her, it was only then she started being more confident and comfortable around others.

How do you view your views about the game against how Dina viewed it?

Adam