Dear Wisdom:

I agree with you that all people have love in them somewhere. I believe all people were born loving and lovable. And that in childhood, many people get hurt, badly and they stop being loving and many continue to hurt others, to pass on their hurt.

People love who they value or what they value. Most people value power so they place their love with the powerful and they hurt the ones they perceive to be weak, children, their own children.

To believe you are lovable, indeed it is a process that takes time and attention, learning, over time.

The girls that get the attention… many girls pay for that attention with their bodies, an exchange and that is very sad.

I don’t believe in past lives, in karma from past lives. I don’t believe I deserved the hurt I received- not at all and this is the tragedy: as children we do not deserve the hurt, not at all. It is a tragedy and a fact of life: most pain we experience, we did nothing to deserve, not in any life.

keep posting, Wisdom, keep communicating with me… it is very helpful to me and I hope it can be helpful to you too!

anita