Dom,

No matter who or what you want to be, before you can even take that step, it’s wise to understand who you are in this moment. Only once you have embraced the current you can you figure out where your heading. Because, you never know, you may already be who you want to be, and your mind is playing tricks on you. I always felt like I couldn’t support myself because i still live at home with my parents in my mid 20s. But then i went traveling and lived abroad for a little while. I noticed that i was always capable, i just hadn’t had the perspective nor the experience to tell me so. Don’t think about changing your life to suit others, nor change who you are just yet. How about flipping the picture upside down, and see what you got? 😉 good luck/