Hi dotcom1,

My advice would be to first, seek a professional resume writer/ editor to have a look at your mad skills! Especially if you are in a particular industry, i know you have to write a resume for that industry, even that job. I change my resume slightly every time i have applied for a job or volunteer position.

Secondly, Are there any industry meet-ups that you can attend? If there are ones, even networking breakfasts/ lunches, these would be helpful just to associate with others, and word of mouth is usually more of a reference anyway. You never know where that will lead.

Third, how not to come across needy and desperate? It comes down to ‘how’ you phrase the question. If someone says “i need help” that is so broad and really sounds like someone couldn’t be bothered figuring out what they need help for. If you were to keep your questions short and concise you may have more luck. For example; when asking for help; “i have attitude, motivation, prior experience, what more do i need to make YOU hire me?” This is not desperate, this in my opinion is someone who is straight to the point, be straight to the point. Don’t use emotive words like; ‘it’s been tough’ ‘its so hard to find work, what can i do?” always direct the question to the person and reiterate what you can do for them. Contacting HR departments in places where you would want to work is ideal, that way you are taking the initiative to understand hiring and what that place/ company is looking for.

**I live in Australia too, and overall employment opportunities are still existent, but just harder to find. Because you haven’t had work for three years, employers might see that negatively and wonder why you haven’t worked. Maybe finding a job outside your field with a similar skill set might be a good first step. At least you have something on your resume for your time in australia. I hope this was somewhat helpful. Good luck.