We got married in the third year of our relationship – we’ve been together 4 years in total (5 years in July).

Neither of us have drastically changed after marriage, we were happier if anything. He’s said that he’s not been happy since just before Christmas but he tried to change things himself and couldn’t, hence why he’s going to a counsellor. His first session was last Friday and his next one is this Friday.
The last time I spoke to him face to face was last night when he told me about the wedding ring etc.
As far as I’m concerned, I haven’t changed but obviously his feelings have even though he doesn’t know why.