Anita,

I feel like I may have lost it in the relationship. I became a people pleaser and I should look out for myself more. If she doesn’t want me in her life I respect that. It’s just a hard pill to swallow.

Micohn,

My emotions are so backwards. I can’t tell right from wrong and can’t even think straight. I’m scared of going out or going to school or things like that because if I see her, I’ll crumble. I plan on going to see the council on my college campus to help me. Maybe it’ll push me forward a little bit. It’s so hard though. The breakup was okay, I’m healing over that, it’s just how fast she jumped ship and went to another guy. That’s the toughest thing. I’m trying to hang in there. I’ve been praying and reading the bible and talking to my friends and family and even reaching out to you guys. It’s really really hard. The aftermath of everything made me feel worthless. I gave 4 years or my life to have it be taken, kicked to the curb and left to die. As a guy, the toughest thing is seeing someone else make you girl happy. Because that’s what you want to do. Be her happiness day in and day out. My mindset is “bipolar” to say the least. One minute I’m okay the next I’m fighting everything that happened, replaying everything and it sends me to despair. Thank you for your advice and insight.

Thank you both for your input!

Andy