Dear ladybug:

The best thing I read in your post above is that you plan on moving out within 6 months. And if you do choose to have no contact with him, that will be for the purpose of taking care of yourself. Who you are to yourself (your own best friend, loving and respectful toward yourself) is way, way… way more important than what kind of a sister you are, or what kind of a daughter you are. To thine own self be true, loving and kind.

anita