Dear christy:

I did not suggest that you don’t care about his well being. I suggested that if I was to text him, I would first consider that it is possible that he disappeared because of some emergency.

Well, it hurts, I understand, to be left like this, as if you didn’t matter in his life, as if what you had didn’t matter. Am I correct? If so, please make sure, whether you hear back from him or not, that your next relationship (with him or with another) is such where you make sure that you matter and that what you are having with the guy does matter. Do so through open, honest communication with the guy, through conversations, getting to know who he is and getting to know what you mean to him.

Better get to know the guy first instead of hoping that someone (whomever he really is) will fall in love with you. It is possible that the guy is not capable of a loving relationship and his rejection of you is no indication of you being not worthy of love. It is also possible you will not like the guy and not want to get involved with him. This is why it is so important to get to know, in depth, the person with whom you get involved and become so vulnerable to.

Please post again.

anita