I understand why she is avoiding me, although she might still have feelings for me. She did told me that from this relationship she learned to take care of her self more. Now, i am in her shoes:/ I wonder if showing her that i’ve changed and want a family with her, will rekindle anything. Her best friend, which happens to be my cousin, told me that she got really hurt and cried for almost a year but now she doesn’t talk to her about me anymore. She also insisted that i approach her once again.