Dear Cath, i see that you feel me. We all seek for that special person that will stick with us, both good and bad times in our lives. It is devastating when that person gives up on us, when some problems arise. What troubles us is that doesn’t this person see beyond our problems, doesn’t she/he sees that we love them? This is the void i feel every time one of my relationships end.
Maybe my absence was a ‘test’ for this love. The love i felt for her lasted, lasts up to date, but it didn’t last for her. Maybe breaking up with her was a 6th sense calling. I do not know.

Dear Elle, a few other people, including myself, believe that she is generally immature. 2 months ago, i went outside her work to say hello. It was after i sent her emails and messages in which she replied to none. She was surprised and very angry that i showed up. I told her that i wanted to see if she is OK etc and told her the reasons i went away all this time. She replied, how should i have known, you haven’t told me you need space blah blah. She was deliberately distant.

Later, i decided to give another shot by writing her a letter. She didn’t even say anything to the person that gave her the letter for me.

This is where i stopped. She is now dating a foreigner, a relationship with no prospect, as my cousin told me. She denied having a family with me and shut down all open doors for me. She didn’t even send me a letter to explain.
Could it be because she got hurt? Could it be cause she wants to protect her new relationship? Could it be that she wants to make me suffer as she did?

Can i provide you with any info so we can see which is the case? Thank you for your help ladies.