Dear John_1/ Reader:

This is what you, John_1 wrote in your original post on this thread (you articulated it as “what if” and changed pronouns from “I” to “you”- creating a distance between you and your story, as if it was happening to someone else, to the reader. I changed the pronouns in your original post. This is what you wrote:

She had medical problems, but I wasn’t there for her. she still forgive me and stayed with me. Her health was shattered because I treated her…I acted selfishly and found an excuse to break up with her, just to make her feel bad. she tried to contact me for a month: she showed up at my place, kept calling me all day long, sent me numerous messages and emails, yet I responded to none of them… She went through a year long depression because of me.

PLEASE re-read this paragraph above, written by John_1.

YOU SHATTERED HER HEALTH.

Somehow in the process of this thread postings, you, John_1, are now the… victim?

anita