Dear orchid24:

In my efforts to understand your situation, I have more questions. Please note you have the right to … not answer..:

In your original post you wrote that your husband had an “established career” when you moved with him to the desert. You are talking about the same hourly paid, half year, could be laid off anytime present job that he has?

You wrote in the last post that “he is not generally fearful”- is he specifically fearful? If so, of what?

You wrote that he is a rock to you. How?

anita