I don’t see any real risk if you are just friends and he hasn’t made a move on you. It is good to have friends. This way you can get to know him without the pressure of dating. Don’t be afraid of the feelings you have for him. It is good to find someone so attractive. Maybe as you get to know him better you will decide you are no longer attracted to him. Or maybe your relationship will evolve into something deeper than a friendship. It is exciting to discover the path your life is leading. Don’t run away because it is too intense!

If you suspect he would be a bad boyfriend, take steps to ensure your relationship never gets out of control. Like don’t spend time alone with him. Hang out in public places with other friends, etc. Date other people if you want. Enjoy him being a part of your life but stay in touch with your own feelings and needs. Stay in your comfort zone and don’t get too close to him if you dont feel secure. Give it some time and see what happens. You can handle this.