Hey Serenity,

Glad to hear from you, and glad to hear that we were able to help you.
Anita above offered beautiful advice. Hope you’ve had a date with yourself tonight.
I’ve also lost touch with my ex (though in my case it was different – he was harming me) but it enabled me to start healing. It just deepens the void (I keep wondering how he is doing regardless of all the harm he has done to me)- but it decreased my anxiety and panicky-feelings. Maybe cutting sometimes is for the best. Helps moving on indeed. I won’t say I don’t wait for messages from him- specially because I’ve been waiting for an apology for a month – but trust me, sometimes it is better like this. Staying friends will just feed your feelings and not help you move on.
We’re here anytime you would like to talk!