I got a masters, now career in something totally unrelated. In college however I was interested in cog neuro and did a lot of brain imaging studies.

Things he did that hurt me.
1. He didn’t tell me he was in a relationship with someone while we were sleeping together (2 times, at least)
2. He kept me isolated from his friends and family for 10 years (although before new york, this never happened)
3. He did not reciprocate sexually for the first several years we were together.
4. He only wanted to stay in and never do anything outside his apartment with me, but was fun with everyone else.
5. His only communications with me were through email while he was at work 9-6 M-F. They were however frequent and always reciprocated, still it was a controlled conversation behind screens. I never got a phone call, or that many texts.
6. After dealing with my mothers death and other downers in my life he said I was too negative and not fun.
7. He encouraged me sexually, which I was fine with… but then used it against me as a negative quality
8. Refusing to listen when I asked him to stay away so many times before.

didn’t reciprocate