Hey there Bob. Thanks for the reply.

I have broken up with my current and am going through the process of healing. She took it hard, and it was extremely difficult to tell her to let go of everything we said and promised, but like Bob said, I took a step forward and thought of her emotions. I didn’t want to put her in that emotional chaos and uncertainty anymore, so I had to really tell her to let go even if I myself am still holding on. Things have been rocky and confusing between us since I had attempted to stay friends. I still do love her, very much so…and I look for her everywhere and I am still very much happy to see her, but deep down i feel that i made the right choice for myself, and maybe for her as well.

My friends have been telling me to get back with her since they all see that we still very much do love each other, but i just cant bring myself to because of the damage that was done and how we kept on fighting and how we couldnt really understand each other. They say if i really did love her, i would find a way to make it work, i would find a way to be compatible and stuff. Something seems to be wrong with the statement, i just cant put my finger on it. After hearing those things, I found myself plunging into self-doubt. I do love her, but could i have done more? These questions just arise and make chaos in my head again.

It would be great if anyone could give me some enlightenment on the issue. Thank you all.