Matt,

Thanks for answering so quickly.

I don’t know how to assure him that I won’t hurt him. I am very extroverted and he is quite the introvert. Sometimes I feel like I am coaxing a rabbit out of a hole.

He tells me that I am warm, loving and luscious and that no one has EVER affected him like I do. That he feels like a kid with a crush again. I think he is as confused as I am. Your answer of :

“Is it safe to love you?” “Will I be hurt?” His question seems awkwardly phrased, but I’m trusting your interpretation.

Do you feel that is what he is saying to me but not in so many words? He has admitted that he is “cautious” about sharing too much. What I do know about his past bad experience is that he was intimate with someone and that it went VERY wrong. It even resulted in him having to take legal action and that as a result he was very hurt.

Thank you again,
Alexa