Leina
I will saying something different than all of these wonderful…caring women. I am also going through what you are. This happened to me 7 days ago and knocked me down to my knees. I am one if the strongest people I know and I cry when I wake up…when I am alone and when I go to sleep. I do agree with everything the ladies have said above but about the closure part. I did contact him and every time he got colder and colder. I know he has someone else and he was letting me go in his mind whilst making travel plans with me (long distance relationship). It was so heart breaking. He gave me some of answers I wanted and they were so heartless. I asked him if he ever loved me and he said of course…. You are hot. Year and a half and all I am is a piece of ass? But I told him that I recognize my mistakes in this and I am using his words to move on. I wishes him well and said my goodbye. I am sure he loved that I was crying while saying all this but I didn’t give him the satisfaction of completely being broken. I was honest with him about how I am. Not gonna lie…wish he would come back but I know in my heart that that’s not love. Someone who truly loves u will never do that to you. You have to start loving yourself…I am just starting to …thanks to that worthless…lying …piece of shit.